Listen My Children and You Shall Hear

2011- another year closer to Heaven..... Tick- tock, yeah don't stop.. When I was a child I remember long lazy summer days. One rolling out from the other, with no set plan or pending oligations. All I had to do was to get up, make my bed, and entertain myself. There was always a good book to read, clay to mold, a walk to take, a game to play, time to look at the clouds and ponder their shapes. Time to really look at the pansies in our front yard and marvel at the beauty of their color combinaitons. I had no idea then what a rare treat this was. I thought my life was somewhat boring. I thought I might like to take piano lessons or be involved with the social clique- which I was clearly not a part of. But looking back on it now, I wouldn't change one single thing- except maybe the piano lessons. But we didn't have a piano anyway.

I didn't feel the pinch for free time until I moved out on my own and worked three jobs while going to college full time. That was nuts. I was not happy- just busy. Life is like that. There are the slow dances and the slam dances. And then there are the waltzes. I'd like to think that I am waltzing right now. I have come to realize that I cannot do it all. Can't read every book that appeals to me, not watch every movie, not see every play, nor keep in contact with all those who I hold dear. It would be like trying to do everything and accomplishing nothing. I have learned that if I want to talk to someone, I can call them and they might not have time to talk to me, and that is okay. And that I don't have to finish a book that bores me before I can begin reading a new book that intrigues. I can eat dessert before dinner if I want. I'd like to say that I am living my life with a lot less "shoulds". It's a lot more enjoyable this way, though the house is not as tidy.

I was going to try to pull together a last minute column summing up the big news stories of 2010 and listing popular predictions for 2011- but I couldn't find any good data, and besides, I just didn't have the time to put something like that together. I trust my readers have a good grip on the iPads and oil spills, earthquakes, floods, and volcano eruptions. I don't need to cop out and rehash it here. I'd prefer to blather on about concepts like the passing of time, and setting priorities, and what I hear when I simply listen.

I have spent some time recently on one of my favorite pastimes- reading my inspirational books, walking my dog to the CSUN Koi Pond, and pondering what it might be like to be the rock that receives the waterfall flow. Or what it might be like to be the water itself. Looking at the lotus flower and realizing that it does not have to strive to be a better lotus flower, or a thinner lotus flower, or a lotus flower in a different part of the pond. It just is, and it is a miracle that a tiny seed and the correct conditions can produce such a beautiful flower.The koi swim and the ducks quack and they seem so comfortable with their station in life. Who am I to think that I am any different? Did I not come from a "seed" of a sort and have been exisiting in favorable conditions? I would like to think so. I don't know what's in store any more than that lotus flower knows when it's going to rain next. All I have to do is to be and not waste my energy judging myself - or others for that matter-as to what kind of job we are doing simply being.

But this is not a natural state of mind for me. If I don't watch myself, I catch myself considering the hair styles and noticing the coughing of the people around me during Mass instead of really hearing the words being spoken. Or missing out on the present moment because I am planning the next- when I am not even in a hurry. Not really tasting lunch because I am mentally preparing dinner. Hearing a stupid song over and over when I am walking my dog. This seems to be my natural state. My goal for 2011 is to work on changing this, at least for some of the time.

So when I am just being- and listening, what do I hear? After the chatter of the judging self quiets? After I crack my neck and scratch my leg? And zero in on the buzzing of nearby electronics? I can't really say right now. It's been a while since I have practiced. But what I do know is that I usually enjoy the rest of the day.

I think it's a great way to recharge. If we are always processing information - visual, auditory, sensory, when do we recharge? When we sleep? I don't know about you, but I don't wake up perky. I wake up trying for the life of me to figure out what might have caused me to dream the crazy dreams I dreamt. Watching TV or reading a book is like letting my brain be pulled along in a wagon. It doesn't have to do any work, but it is still in motion. Only when I take a moment to do nothing ( see how we have to have that "do" word in there?) can I attempt to quiet my mind. No shoulds, no planning, no worrying, no wanting- just sit there like that lotus flower and be.

I think that two of my four children get in this state from time to time. I catch them gazing off with a far away look. No TV on- no computer, no radio or ipod or ipad or open book. I ask them what they are thinking about and their reply is always "nothing". The other two seem to panic during these moments. They don't like to be alone. They hate a quiet car ride or house. They are always inputting- TV, Radio, Computer, iPod, telephone, or organizing in their minds. What might they hear if they stopped inputting and just listened?

Sorry Yogi- no new recipe this month. too busy eating out : o)

Wishing All of You A Wonderful 2011!


More Quotes:

Everything that is done in the world is done by hope.
- Martin Luther

Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.
- Helen Keller

We can do anything we want to if we stick to it long enough.
- Helen Keller

Science may have found a cure for most evils; but it has found no remedy for the worst of them all - the apathy of human beings.
- Helen Keller

Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.
- Helen Keller

Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.
- Helen Keller

Life is either a great adventure or nothing.
- Helen Keller

Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties.
- Helen Keller

Hope is like peace. It is not a gift from God. It is a gift only we can give one another.
- Elie Wiesel

Just as despair can come to one only from other human beings, hope, too, can be given to one only by other human beings.
- Elie Wiesel

Faith has to do with things that are not seen and hope with things that are not at hand.
- Saint Thomas Aquinas.

Hope is a waking dream.
- Aristotle

Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made straight and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
-Reinhold Niebuhr

If you're alive, there's a purpose for your life.
- Rick Warren

Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul.
- Emily Dickinson

Hope is patience with the lamp lit.
- Tertullian

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.
- Helen Keller

Faith is the strength by which a shattered world shall emerge into the light.
- Helen Keller

It's wonderful to climb the liquid mountains of the sky. Behind me and before me is God and I have no fears.
- Helen Keller

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.
- Albert Einstein

To eat bread without hope is still slowly to starve to death.
- Pearl S. Buck

To see a vibrant, exciting, and hopeful world, view the world through joyful eyes.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.
- William James

Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.
- Confucius

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
- Franklin D. Roosevelt

This above all, to thine own self be true.
- William Shakespeare

As we light a path for others, we naturally light our own way.
- Mary Anne Radmacher

No one knows what he can do until he tries.
- Publilius Syrus

There are no facts, only interpretations.
- Friedrich Nietzsche

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.
- Joseph Campbell

I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy.
- Rabindranath Tagore

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.

To go against the dominant thinking of your friends, of most of the people you see every day,
is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform.
- Theodore H. White

Happiness depends upon ourselves.
- Aristotle

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January 3, 2011


There Are No Facts, Only Interpretations.
- Friedrich Nietzsche

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.
The important thing is not to stop questioning.
- Albert Einstein

All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.
- Walt Disney

If you can dream it, you can do it.
- Walt Disney

While there's life, there's hope.
- Cicero

When the world says, "Give up," Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
- Author Unknown

I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.
- Bill Cosby

When you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance.
- Lee Ann Womack

Whoever is happy will make others happy too.
- Anne Frank

I don't think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains.
- Anne Frank

It's really a wonder that I haven't dropped all my ideals, because they seem so absurd and impossible to carry out. Yet I keep them, because in spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart.
- Anne Frank

How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.
- Anne Frank

Hate destroys, Love builds.
Hate tears down, Love renews and creates.
Hatred holds no hope for the future.
Love creates Today as its own better future.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

A true friend is a source of strength and hope.
- jlh

The hope of a secure and livable world lies with disciplined nonconformists who are dedicated to justice, peace and brotherhood.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.

Darkness cannot drive out darkness;
only light can do that.
Hate cannot drive out hate;
only love can do that.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.

Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will.
- Zig Ziglar

Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.
-Thich Nhat Hanh

I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition.
- Martha Washington

Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass...
It's about learning how to dance in the rain.
- Vivian Greene

Life is a song - sing it.
Life is a game - play it.
Life is a challenge - meet it.
Life is a dream - realize it.
Life is a sacrifice - offer it.
Life is love - enjoy it.
- Sai Baba

Life is an exciting business, and most exciting when it is lived for others.
- Helen Keller

Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
- John Lennon

Life is without meaning.
You bring the meaning to it.
The meaning of life is whatever you ascribe it to be.
Being alive is the meaning.
- Joseph Campbell

Play with life, laugh with life,
dance lightly with life,
and smile at the riddles of life,
knowing that life's only true lessons are writ small in the margin.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood.
Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.
- Marie Curie

Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance.
- Anonymous

Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.
- Helen Keller

Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.
- Confucius

We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned,
so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
The old skin has to be shed before the new one can come.
- Joseph Campbell

Life is a long lesson in humility.
- James M. Barrie

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